Where did your SEXY go??

Lately I have been feeling like I need to bring my “sexy” back. After having been single for a while now and recovering from a break-up, I seem to have forgot how to be and feel like a sexy, juicy, fabulous, beautiful woman. I have been focused on self-growth and learning from the lessons of my past experiences that I somehow moved away from my sensual, playful, feminine sexy self.

So with the change of seasons, I am shifting into fall into my power-sexy-goddess pose. So often, I feel that as women we forget to treat ourselves “lavishly”. Remember how “Sexy” you are and that vibration starts with you. Remind yourself what a beautiful, sensual, sexy woman you are and STAND in your feminine power.

Here are some quick tips to bring your SEXY back:
~Run yourself a warm bubble bath with rose petals, and your favorite essential oils or bath salts
~Treat yourself to a spa massage day
~Eat rich milk or dark chocolate
~Buy some sexy lingerie and wear it to bed
~Get a new pair of soft sheets that will feel amazing against your skin (spray them with your favorite perfume)
~Read to yourself or better yet, have your lover read to you a hot erotic story that will paint steamy pictures in your mind (keeps you thinking creatively)
~Tell yourself you are beautiful in the mirror (self mantras about yourself are key)
~Take a sexy dance class: Belly Dance, Salsa, Pole or even Ballroom classes are great. Basically any movement that gets your womb-center area going…loosen it up!! Twist, whind, twirl and grind 
~Buy yourself a sexy dress with some vixen stilettos (every woman needs her “freak ‘em dress
“ as Beyonce put it).
The list can go on and on…do what makes you feel beautiful and sensual. As women, it’s important we not forget this about ourselves. We need it, it puts a pep in our step and a dip in our hips….

You don’t have to wait until you are in a romantic relationship to feel beautiful. And if you are in a romantic relationship, make sure your man knows how to make you feel special. Men are not mind readers so “tell him” exactly what you want and need. They too need to be reminded in their own way, but that’s a whole other blog! lol…

For my fellas…this is not just an article for women, this is also a reminder to you that you need to remind your special lady what a sexy mama she is. Bring back some of that same excitement you had for her when you first met…when you could not get her off your mind. Because we all know that when “mama” is happy…everyone is happy;)…trust me!

Bring your SEXY back!

Clearing Your Mailbox

Clearing Your Mailbox

I did a great thing today, I finally went through all my emails and cleared out my mailbox. Deleted what I did not need, stored and created folders with the emails I need to refer back to, and finally emptied out my trash can and spam. It was such a great feeling to know that in those few minutes, I just cleared the clutter out of my life…and in that moment I felt lighter.

This got me thinking about my own personal life, who and what did I need to take a good look at and clear out, delete or organize into the different parts of my life folders. Sometimes I find we get so caught up in the ever day “grind” that we just pile things up in our lives that don’t even really have a place there anymore. It just ends up being “stuff” we hold onto because it has become “comfortable” to do so. I say comfortable because we all know that change is never easy…it is always for the most part a little scary and uncomfortable so we avoid it.

So just as I did with my inbox, I plan to take inventory of the stuff in my life and get organized so I can become lighter and in so doing, create a new space for new things to come into my life that are more in alignment with the new direction my life is going. Release old things, stale relationships that are not complimenting your growth process, clothes that don’t fit, old toxic text messages and voicemails in your phone, clutter, expired food in you refridgerator, stuff that you no longer even use or even forgot that you had. Whatever it is… if it is out of sight and out of mind…then it must not be that important to begin with. Clear the path for the new lighter energy and blessings in your life that are being blocked right now from entering your “life space” because it is crowded with the energy of the old “stuff” …and what a shame that is. Often times, we are the ones that are blocking our own blessings and positive energy from shining.

Let go, Release and Let GOD.

~Namaste